Marriage is
a union between two people, man and woman, usually recognized by law and who
have come together for many different purposes. All over the world and in all
religions, people engage in this activity. The rules regarding it are
diversified in many ways across board. From the very first creation by God, he
instituted marriage as seen in the case of Adam and Eve. From the Islamic perspective, marriage is
equated to clothing. In this context, the husband and wife are one another’s
protector and comforter as in real garments. In essence they are meant for each
other.
In Islam,
marriage is a sacred practice highly regarded and revered even in the sight of
God. It is obligatory and highly recommended. According to scholars, though it
is highly recommended, it becomes obligatory when there is a chance of falling
into sin. The Holy Quran says: “And marry those among you who are single and
those who are fit among your male slaves; if they area needy, Allah will make
them free from want out of his grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, Knowing.”
(Quran 24:32). The Holy Prophet Mohammed (Peace Be unto Him) also said: “No
house has been built in Islam more beloved in the sight of Allah than through
marriage.” Thus, it is a highly respected tradition in Islam as it is a Sunnah
(practice of the Holy Prophet). The benefits of marriage include fulfillment of
sexual desires and procreation primarily.
Muslim
marriage and customs are traditions and practices that relate to Muslim
communities all over the world. In as much as the customs and traditions of a
people affect this institution, the most important aspects of it still run
across from the time of the Prophet Mohammed (P.B.U.H.) to date. Most important
of all these is the payment of the brides dowry which is the basis of all
marriages in Islam. It also enhances the prayers of the couple, increases
sustenance and ensures that they remain healthier both physically and mentally.
Marriage is also regarded as a way to acquire spiritual perfection as the
Prophet said, “one who marries has already guarded half of his religion.
Therefore he should fear Allah for the other half”.
The right
time to marry is when an individual reaches sexual as well as mental maturity. That
is, the person must have the ability to have cordial relations. For boys he
must reach at least fifteen years or be Baligh
(age of maturity, 15). The consent of both the man and woman are to be
sought before any arranged marriages are done. It is not mandatory to force
people into marriage if they do not will.
Marriages in
Ghana have undergone tremendous transformations in recent years. The effect of
globalization has contributed immensely to this factor. Muslim wedding
ceremonies have adopted some aspects of western cultures which are geared to
make them flashy and unforgettable. Brides and grooms now engage in courtship
before marriage as well go out on dates and are fully involved in the ceremony.
It is a week long activity which sees the bride and groom involved in many
aspects of their marriage.
